Do you recognize these symptoms: a pounding heart, legs feeling
weak and trembling, a tight throat, light-headedness, and fears of a heart
attack or going crazy? While simultaneously you hate yourself for
foolishly worrying about these feelings which your physician assured you
were "nothing?" This is the hallmark of panic attacks.
Must you remain at the mercy of such episodes striking "out of the
blue?" Absolutely not. Countless victims--both men and women--have been
helped.
If you have never experienced a panic attack, it usually begins
with an unexpected physical discomfort, such as chest pressure or pains,
rapid heartbeat, dizziness, weakness, shakiness, a case of the jitters, or
feeling vaguely unsettled or "weird."
Mysteriously, this often occurs for no medically detectable reason.
Being human with imperfectly functioning physiologies, we are all
vulnerable to ephemeral physical symptoms.
But the anxiety-prone person, rather than ignoring those
discomforts, dwells on them, magnifying and prolonging them by thinking:
"I MUST know precisely why I'm feeling like this; I MUST be certain it's
not serious; I MUST never lose control or act crazily; I MUST not do
something stupid or look foolish; I MUST have a guarantee I'm not going to
die; I MUST not make myself panic."
Fired with such unrealistic notions, the anxiety-prone individual
creates out of thin air, feelings of fright, panic, hysteria and finally
depression, while rigidly avoiding uncomfortable situations and
increasingly circumscribing his or her life.
Is there a solution to this syndrome, which has reached epidemic
proportions?
Thankfully there is, and it is called Three Minute Therapy (TMT).
TMT, a modern comprehensive cognitive-behavioral approach, is described in
the popular book, THREE MINUTE THERAPY: CHANGE YOUR THINKING, CHANGE YOUR
LIFE.
TMT helps sufferers successfully complete the two-stage process for
long-term relief by targeting the panic-creating "MUSTs."
Step one consists of the sufferer recognizing that the "MUSTs"--but
not the preferences--are totally false; that although it would be highly
preferable to avoid discomfort, it's never a "MUST." You don't always
"HAVE TO" feel entirely comfortable and you usually won't.
Although it would prove lovely never to unduly upset yourself,
being human and imperfect you assuredly will some of the time. And, in the
unlikely worst case scenario, even if you do lose control, go crazy or even
die, that's profoundly sad, but if it happens, it happens--and worrying is
surely no cure.
Step two consists of thoroughly convincing yourself of the truth of
those insights. You accomplish that by persuasively, vigorously,
persistently confronting and disputing those unrealistic "MUSTs" until you
give them up.
Also by practicing pushing yourself to do the things you are
terribly afraid of doing and by reaffirming with these actions that great
discomfort is never horrible, but rather tends to diminish as you
consistently face, rather than avoid, it.
Three Minute Therapy can help you significantly if you are the
victim of panic attacks. There is no need to suffer in silence.